Rumours, what to do? - Saxperience

iSlayeR · 14th February 2010, 16:14

I won't go into detail, but i'm being accused of stalking my ex girlfriend, even though i havn't seen or spoke to her for a month now, it could even be her saying it as i know what she's like, messed up in the head

Now her new boyfriend believes i am actully stalking her and clearly has problems with me ( the way she finished with me was telling me we were on a break then going out with him a week later lol

i did nothing or said anything, i just moved on, as she's cleary messed up in the head.

Now what would you do? the new boyfriend is an idiot and couldn't hurt a fly, but he's clearly getting a thrill out of this and telling everyone i'm a stalker, but i'm not a meat head that goes starting fights unless he starts it. i can't have everything thinking i'm a stalker though

Mochachino · 14th February 2010, 16:16

Make a joke out of it, and sort him out tbh.

digital · 14th February 2010, 16:27

unlucky mate... im going through the same thing atm

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Rach125 · 14th February 2010, 16:27

i would say "yeah and"

moxy89 · 14th February 2010, 16:33

just say it paid off the baby is mine

Stu750 · 14th February 2010, 16:39

ignore it , itll go away eventually

if it gets out of hand , butt him , just remind him that you fucked her first and she did ATM , even if she didnt

Jaytee · 14th February 2010, 16:43

Punch him in the face when everyones watching. Look around and shout are you not entertained.

Sorry. Seriously though mate surely the people who matter don't think your a stalker, either way if it is your ex she obviously dooing it to try and get you to retaliate or cause a scene. Its possible she has this lad tied around her finger and he thinks that she's telling the truth. In which case he is just saying what he thinks true. Whichever just get on with your life keep your head up and ignore it. People will soon get bored/realise that your not.

All else fails ring jeremy kyle

Scott-jarvis · 14th February 2010, 16:45

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Originally Posted by Jaytee

Punch him in the face when everyones watching. Look around and shout are you not entertained.

Pmsl

Just torment him somehow like he is tormenting you.

tom130691 · 14th February 2010, 16:48

tell every one she has a buket minge
or make suming up about him

vtrsarah · 14th February 2010, 17:11

Ignore it because it will piss her off she clearly wants the attention

iSlayeR · 14th February 2010, 17:35

I think i'll just keep my ear to the ground, i have them both on facebook so i see everything they say, if i do keep hearing stuff from anyone, i have the power to delete both there facebooks/msns/bebos, and then if he wants to try start with me, he will get everything that's coming to him

K17NEY · 14th February 2010, 17:43

Ignore it.Shes doing it to get to you and its working.She may even be doing it so you'll get in contact with her.Sounds like your classic attention seeking muppet.

Saxomatic · 14th February 2010, 17:50

Haha, sounds like her soldering joint has gone. Can't function properly.

Best thing to do is just rise above it, and as you've said, move on.

People are sad, let them get on with it. The 'game' always gets boring in the end. Especially if you show you don't give one.

Viper · 14th February 2010, 18:20

maybe you should actually start stalking her?

LeeM · 14th February 2010, 18:26

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Originally Posted by Viper

maybe you should actually start stalking her?

gets my vote

shaunsvtr · 14th February 2010, 18:26

she wants ya c**k still by the sounds ov it lol just make something up bout her buddy thats what add do

iSlayeR · 14th February 2010, 18:30

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Originally Posted by shaunsvtr

she wants ya c**k still by the sounds ov it lol just make something up bout her buddy thats what add do

i'm not 100% sure it's her making the rumour up, i don't know anyone else who would want do it though, and shes wanted me back before, it must really piss her off since i've done nothing what so ever to try get her back

shaunsvtr · 14th February 2010, 18:41

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Originally Posted by iSlayeR

i'm not 100% sure it's her making the rumour up, i don't know anyone else who would want do it though, and shes wanted me back before, it must really piss her off since i've done nothing what so ever to try get her back

good m8 keep it like that a tell ya what if u got a girlfrend that would piss her rite off lol

auds · 14th February 2010, 18:46

Ignore it mate, not worth it, rise above it, delete em off fb and that anyway, then you don't have to see what they say, don't let it bother you, move on

Mr_P · 14th February 2010, 18:57

Man up and move on!

You've got away lightly fella! Trust me, It could have been a hell of a lot worse! She could have been the sort of cunt my ex was/is!

Shit like this blows over. Court summons due to someone you don't speak to doesn't! Count yourself lucky