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6th November 2012, 13:38
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Guys opinions
Got onto the conversation of staying faithful to your other half at work today, I've got the women's opinions (the few of them that are at Land Rover) but what do you guys think?
Could you stay with someone knowing that you've cheated on them?
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6th November 2012, 13:42
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I wouldn't do it in the first place but tbh no, I wouldn't want the other party having it on her mind all the time and trust is just not there.
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6th November 2012, 13:42
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what happens on tour, stays on tour.
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on a serious note no, if you're in 'love' with someone, shouldn't even cross your mind to do something with someone else? looking and touching are two separate things
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6th November 2012, 13:46
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I agree with Brett and Tom, my 'mate' has cheated on his girlfriend 3 times now, I think it's the most cuntish thing to do, but she's stuck by him, I think she's fucking stupid...
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6th November 2012, 13:47
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It depends on the girl...
If I was with a girl that I could honestly see myself being long term and serious with then I'd never cheat...
BUT
If I'm just meeting a girl and get together but can't imagine being with her long term as she is a whiny bitch or has no prospects then It doesn't bother me to cheat on them...
Even with her friends
Sometimes I just get with a girl for regular company and to do stuff with, but usually their personalities are pretty shit so there not what I'd class as a serious relationship
Last edited by matt_vtr_15a; 6th November 2012 at 14:11.
Reason: their*
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6th November 2012, 13:50
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NEVER CHEAT - i've been on the receiving end and its the worst feeling in the world, would never put that onto someone else ... !
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6th November 2012, 13:51
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You should never be in a position to cheat i always stay. If your happy in the relationship you wouldn't feel the need to cheat and if your not happy with the relationship, you shouldn't be in it TOO cheat. simples.
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6th November 2012, 13:57
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This isn't my field of expertise, women scare me.
I agree with what matt said.
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6th November 2012, 14:15
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If people feel the need to cheat, they're clearly not with the right person in the first place. Either that or they're just nobs.
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6th November 2012, 14:22
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Originally Posted by NobbyClarke
NEVER CHEAT - i've been on the receiving end and its the worst feeling in the world, would never put that onto someone else ... !
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You should never be in a position to cheat i always stay. If your happy in the relationship you wouldn't feel the need to cheat and if your not happy with the relationship, you shouldn't be in it TOO cheat. simples.
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Completely agree.
I was cheaten on and my girlfriend is amazing. She's stunning, just was an arsehole. However...
We were together a year and I found out she had cheaten on me with her college friend for the past 5 months, it completely broke me. I split with her, made her feel so fucking bad about it and started seeing some other girl. This made her literally beg for me back, for months, she stayed away from other boys and after a good few months of pretending I didn't care and fucking the other girl I am now back with her. She gave up her best friend at college for me and things and we've been back together 6 months and it's incredible (so far  )
I do sometimes have my doubts which annoys her but what do you expect
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6th November 2012, 14:34
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If you're with a girl for the shits and giggles then yeah cheating doesn't really matter, I'm sure both of you realise it's not going anywhere.
If you're actually with somebody you like/love you would be a mong to cheat on them, I would never cheat on my current mrs and I know she wouldn't ever cheat on me.
pretty much just +1 what matt said.
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6th November 2012, 14:35
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Originally Posted by Phils_VTR
Completely agree.
I was cheaten on and my girlfriend is amazing. She's stunning, just was an arsehole. However...
We were together a year and I found out she had cheaten on me with her college friend for the past 5 months, it completely broke me. I split with her, made her feel so fucking bad about it and started seeing some other girl. This made her literally beg for me back, for months, she stayed away from other boys and after a good few months of pretending I didn't care and fucking the other girl I am now back with her. She gave up her best friend at college for me and things and we've been back together 6 months and it's incredible (so far )
I do sometimes have my doubts which annoys her but what do you expect |
You believe she didn't bounce on all the college boys for those months of no attention?
Don't believe it for a second...
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6th November 2012, 14:38
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Originally Posted by matt_vtr_15a
You believe she didn't bounce on all the college boys for those months of no attention?
Don't believe it for a second...
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Shes probably cheating on him right now as he types this
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6th November 2012, 14:39
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Do blowjobs count? This girl can suckkkkkkkk
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6th November 2012, 14:41
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Originally Posted by Gandi699
Shes probably cheating on him right now as he types this
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Haha, harsh but plausible.
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Ya cor gew at 11 mukka they aye mashed enough, gorra go at 2 if ya want some narny
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6th November 2012, 16:21
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One of my favourite quotes pretty much sums up everything in here:
"Trust is like a mirror. Once it's broken, you can piece it back together, but you will always see the cracks."
Always rings true. Once trust is broken it's very difficult if not impossible to trust that person again.
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6th November 2012, 16:35
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a couple of my friends do it all the time like its nothing
i wouldnt ever myself, despise the act of it
If anyones cheated, its not worth being with them anymore
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6th November 2012, 16:37
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Quote:
Originally Posted by matt_vtr_15a
You believe she didn't bounce on all the college boys for those months of no attention?
Don't believe it for a second...
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Originally Posted by Gandi699
Shes probably cheating on him right now as he types this
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Haha, harsh but plausible.
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I hacked her phone/facebook for the whole time she was none the wiser, don't even care if that makes me weird but she'd do anything for me now when before it was always me running after her. I am happy with my decision, I am very lucky.
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drill a hole in the roof in one room and put all the lassies in that room, go up stairs and wank in the hole and see who you jiz on, its not really a game and possibly illegal but sure would be fun
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6th November 2012, 16:39
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Originally Posted by Phils_VTR
I hacked her phone/facebook for the whole time she was none the wiser, don't even care if that makes me weird but she'd do anything for me now when before it was always me running after her. I am happy with my decision, I am very lucky.
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That is a bit dodgy dude. Wanna make sure she doesn't visit here and see that comment 
Although can't help but think a quilty conscience comes into play perhaps?
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6th November 2012, 16:39
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If u want to cheat on somebody then you dont really want to be with em in the 1st place imo
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