Counselling

[Moke]

Originally Posted by Dom

It wouldn't be easy on any of you, with your Dad, I suppose he is missing your Mum, and his new wife cannot come close to what your Mum was like.

This new wife sounds like you need to sit her down at a table, and talk to her like she is a child, she needs to grow up, and her son, needs a word. May be easier said than done, but if they want to be a part of the family, its something they have to do.

Your brother sounds like he likes a bit of independence going for a walk, yes there is the worry something might go wrong, but its something that needs to be put at the back of your mind when these things happen. Go out for a walk yourself before your brother goes after an argument, he will probably follow you.

With the having Fits bit, that is a worry, my sister 'had' epilepsy, the worry was always there, it wasn't a good time, and I ain't going to lie, when your stood there having a conversation with someone and they fall out of nowhere and have a fit, its not something anyone would like to see. With most types of fits, Doctor's can normally get them under control.

We've had so many chats with her though... Like one time, she kicked off and i confronted her... She ended up grabbing me by the throat and my dad had to block my punch as he saw me clench my fist and raise it...

I don't hit women, but the things she's said and done, you'd be the same and wouldn't think twice about doing it.

We all had a go at my dad, proper upset him when he told us about his new lady and we kicked off - he got to the point of crying his eyes out and blaming himself for everything... I've never been so heartbroken in my life.

Thankfully, everyone left me with him, we had a chat and got him smiling again - It's not his fault and he deserves to be happy, so he's going with his heart and staying with her.

He's told us time and time again that she'll never replace my mum, but he needs to be happy too!

Also, she's not all that bad, she really is a nice and caring person, but when she goes on one, it really kicks off!

With my brother, it's clear to see that he won't harm a fly, but the amount of cunts out there that don't care astonishes me and I know they see him as an easy target... It's so hard to forget about and push to the back of my mind.